Tuesday, February 18, 2025

FIRST DAYS IN BANGKOK

MASSIVE “SQUIRRELS”, RECLINING BUDDHAS and FERRYS
Santiphap Park

Here are a few quick notes from our first days in Bangkok, before our tour of the country with Overseas Adventure Travel (OAT) begins.

We arrived in Bangkok early Sunday morning, after twenty-four hours of traveling from the east coast of the US, and a lengthy layover in Doha Qatar. Thankfully we were able to check in early at our hotel. We had paid for an extra night at the Bizotel, the same hotel OAT uses for our time in Bangkok and the friendly staff there were very accommodating.

Bangkok is exactly 12 hours ahead of the east coast of the United States.

With OAT there’s a trip leader and even before our arrival he was communicating with us throughout the trip via ‘What’s App’ and after we napped a short bit at the hotel, we acted on some of his recommendations.

CASH IS KING

Nearly everything purchased so far in Bangkok has been with cash. Banks offer the best exchange rates, but we arrived on a Sunday and were wary about the exorbitant fees ATMs charge for withdrawals, so we exchanged money with the front desk at the Bizotel. That was a mistake, their rate was horrible. When we went to exchange more money on Monday the Western Union gave us over 350 THB more for the same amount we exchanged with the hotel. 

DRAGONS AT THE PEACE PARK

Monitor lizard at 
Santiphap Park

Santiphap Park is a very short walk from our hotel along the same road. The name translates to Peace Park and visiting this urban oasis was a very good suggestion by our OAT trip leader. It is an 8-acre park with several ponds, a meandering running track, meticulous grounds and an array of beautiful flowers.

Thailand is close to 95% Buddhist, but I guess the country celebrates St. Valentine’s Day as well, as there were several displays of hearts meant for picture posing.

We saw some runners and some families strolling and quite unexpectedly we watched Thailand’s version of park squirrels. Monitor lizards are common in the parks of Bangkok and were walking around on the grass near one pond. 

Ominous, with their long tails and slithering tongues, the critters pose no threat to humans unless cornered or threatened, and they will eat fish, frogs, rats and dead animals. The ones we saw were about 3 feet long from nose to tail, but they can get bigger.

We gave them plenty of space.  

RUBBING YOU THE RIGHT WAY
Looks legit
Sex tourism is big business in Thailand, but you can go for a regular massage with no happy ending. 

As per our trip leader’s recommendation and his assurance that the place was legit, we visited the Palace Massage establishment across the street from our hotel. For 1,100 BHT we each got a one-hour hot oil massage, which is about $32 USD total for the two of us.

REMEMBER, DO NOT DRINK THE TAP WATER

We bought a case of water for the room and one beer. It cost 170 THB at the local 7-Eleven. There are 14,000 such convenience stores in all of Thailand. I cannot stress that you should never ingest tap water. Don’t even use it for brushing your teeth. When you purchase water from a vendor on the street, usually for 10 THB, make sure the seal is intact.

We take a daily probiotic supplement to ensure our gut health. Not sure why there isn’t a better water filtration system; it was the same in Vietnam and Cambodia; but just go with the precaution.

The alternative is not pleasant.

A TALE OF TWO TEMPLES

reclining Buddha at
Wat Pho
Leave it to Janet to find something interesting to do on our lone day off without the tour company. I would have been happy to laze about the hotel and maybe walk around the neighborhood, but she decided we would visit the Wat Pho temple after breakfast. The hotel's concierge arranged a taxi for us and also suggested after our visit to Wat Pho we should visit Wat Arun, across the Chao Phraya River. To reach the second temple we would take a ferry.  

WHAT FOR?

Well, what for Wat Pho? Well, because it has the largest reclining Buddha statute in Bangkok and the temple complex houses the largest collection of Buddha images in all of Thailand. Also located on the grounds was a primary school and a traditional Thai massage (ouch) school. Scattered throughout the grounds were statues of those evil masseuse contorting their clients. I had a gotten a That massage in Hanoi and I’m surprised I still have all my limbs…seriously.
Thai massage statues

As we wiggled through the grounds dodging countless foreign and domestic tourists and monks, we were constantly taking off our shoes to enter yet another temple of a particular Buddha in a show of respect.   

The main “attraction” at Wat Pho though was indeed the massive reclining Buddha and there was a steady stream of visitors shuffling through the building, photographing the nearly 151-foot-long gold leave covered statue with 16-foot-long feet whose soles were decorated with mother-of-pearl inlays.

feet of the
reclining Buddha

The statue made the 300 Baht CASH ONLY entrance fee worth the price.

OH, ANOTHER TEMPLE?

Directly across the Chao Phraya River from Wat Pho is the massive Wat Arun, one of Thailand’s best-known landmarks. Wat Arun translates to Temple of Dawn. Its central spire, or prang, rises over 250 feet looming majestically over the river, the spires covered in colorful porcelain.

To reach Wat Arun we took a short ferry ride for 5 Baht each, our boat dodging barges, tour and long boats plying the river. Foreigners are charged 200 Baht CASH ONLY entrance fee, but they also give you a bottle of water.

Wat Arun 
A very popular pastime at Wat Arun is to rent period costumes and hire a professional photographer to snap your picture in various regal poses. Outside the grounds of Wat Arun are several rental shops. We first saw this activity at the Citadel in Hue Vietnam.

NEGOTIATE

The concierge at the Bizotel arranged for a cab to take us to Wat Pho and told us the price would be 200 Baht and to get back across the river to the hotel would be 300 Baht. He told us not to get in the cab until the price is negotiated. On the return we did just this. The cab driver said 400 Baht, but he agreed to our counter of 300.

BIZOTEL BANGKOK

Busy first day despite the jet lag.

More to come.

Thanks for reading.

Love Janet and greg

WAT ARUN

A "prince" strikes a pose



Monitor lizard in Bangkok

© 2025 by Gregory Dunaj






Sunday, February 16, 2025

THAILAND TIPS

HOW MUCH IS THAT? 

currency
calculator
currency 
calculator
Normally I am loathe to rely on apps for my iPhone, but I must recommend the “Currency converter calculator!” available for free. It looks like a regular calculator but can show the conversion between over 100 countries and bitcoin. The conversion rates are updated daily through Google, and it comes in handy when you’re wondering what that Bangkok kiosk is charging you for that coffee you’re craving because you just flew over 24 hours to get here. 
(35 THB=$1.04 USD). 
Or, if you’re debating whether to drop 1,100 THB on a pair of very legitimate (I must stress) one-hour hot oil massages for you and Janet at Palace Massage across the street from your hotel. (1,100 THB=$32.62).

Or, if you’re pondering whether to risk a 2,000 THB penalty the Bizotel Premier Hotel will charge you if you try to smuggle a smelly Durian fruit onto the premises. (2,000 THB = $59.30).


Just go to the app store on your phone and search for “Currency converter calculator!” and download.


It’s worth your Baht, or would you prefer that in Vietnamese Dong?.

Thanks for reading. 


Love Janet and greg

© 2025 by Gregory Dunaj

Friday, February 14, 2025

THAILAND EASY PEASY?

NO WORRIES
Everton kit
We are much more relaxed preparing for this trip to Thailand than we were for last year’s trek through Vietnam and Cambodia. Perhaps it is because we’ve had several friends visit Thailand and have returned unscathed and spoke glowingly about the beaches and the sites and we were offered plenty of tips about the country?  

With Vietnam and Cambodia, we didn’t have a clue of what to expect and we were worried about the language and culture barriers of the countries and thought it was best to travel with Overseas Adventure Travel (OAT). They are a small touring company who limits participants to 16 and their pace is not a constant slog from one place to another. The trip to Vietnam and Cambodia was a very positive experience and we decided to book our Thailand trip with OAT.

The difference this trip though is we booked our own air travel, rather than through the company and when the tour is over, we ain’t leaving Thailand. Instead, we will fly down to Phuket for a week. We would never have considered doing something like this on the last trip. 

Thai Baht

Armed with tales and advice from friends who have traveled to Thailand, we are much less fearful this time. The enormity of the destination has dissipated, and we are almost approaching this like a casual trip to the Caribbean rather than to the other side of the globe.

YOUR PAPERS
Visas were required and meticulously scrutinized by the customs agents in Vietnam and Cambodia, but there is no such requirement for Thailand. There were approximately 35 million visitors to Thailand last year and that number is expected to grow in 2025.

JUST IN CASE
you don't need it
until you need it

Before our trip to Vietnam, we got DTaP vaccines for protection from Diphtheria, Tetanus and Pertussis (whooping cough) and a shot for Hepatitis A and a prescription for Z-Pak for anti-diarrhea and we also packed at OTC for DiaResQ for even more protection. For this trip we got the second part of our Hepatitis vaccine, but that would have happened without the trip. We’re also packing  more DiaResQ, just in case.

As in Vietnam and Cambodia the tap water in Thailand is NOT for drinking, and NOT even for brushing your teeth.

7-ELEVEN TO THE RESCUE

According to one friend you can buy ANYTHING at a 7-ELEVEN convenience store including bottles of water for about 10 cents. There are nearly 14,000 7-Elevens located in Thailand and if you’re unsure about the bottled water they sell beer and alcohol too. An individual can of Singha or Chang beer sells for about 40 THB at 7-Elevens. They are the two most popular beers in Thailand.

From 2004 to 2017 Chang beer was the sponsor for the Everton Premier League team out of Liverpool. No wonder the English like traveling to Thailand.  

IT’S WORTH YOUR BAHT

In case you’re wondering 40 THB or Baht is about $1.20 USD. Another bit of advice our friends offered was to bring cash to exchange rather than withdraw from an ATM in Thailand. There are exorbitant fees through an ATM, but you’ll get a better exchange rate with crisp $100 notes.

Flights home will leave Bangkok at an ungodly hour and rather than pay for two days the hotel will simply charge you per hour over the allotted time.  

SOME LIKE IT HOT

One last cautionary note from a friend who has traveled to Thailand is about the food. Order it MILD…it will be hot enough…

This is going to be a nice trip. Just don't tell Raisin.

Come back and read more!


Love Janet and greg

© 2025 by Gregory Dunaj

Sunday, February 9, 2025

THEY ARE LEAVING AGAIN!

WHAT HAVE I DONE?
How f*cking cute am I?
OMG! The f*king bags are out again. They are leaving on another f*king trip!

I know I can be a bitch, I mean I am a dog after all, and, I know I have an “accident” in the house every once in a while, but f*ck I am getting old. That’s not enough a f*cking reason to leave me again!

Is it?

That can’t be f*cking it. I thought mommy and daddy were happy with me. They haven’t gone anywhere for over a f*king month, and I thought they were happy to just have me sit in their lap as they watch incessant reruns of F-Troop. Life has been f*cking good.

Why would they leave?
I even went out of my way to make me even more loveable. I got a haircut and I’m groomed and I smell f*cking great, not like ass, and I’m wearing a f*cking cute bandana for St. Valentine’s Day. Why would anyone want to leave this gorgeous bitch behind?

How f*cking big of a yutz am I?

Not only are they leaving me, but they are also leaving me on St. Valentine’s Day. They are real sentimental p*icks huh? It breaks my heart, but I have my revenge planned.

I was an idiot for getting 
this bandana huh?

Gotta go and poop in their bags again. That WON’T be an accident.

P*icks.

My revenge will he hot and smelly

© 2025 by Raisin

Saturday, February 8, 2025

THAILAND SEX TOURISM

CAVEAT EMPTOR  
We are traveling soon to Thailand with the small group tour company Overseas Adventure Travel (OAT). As part of their service, they send us a pamphlet that goes over our day-to-day itinerary on the trip. Hotels, meals, travel arrangements and description of sights and activities are covered in the booklet. Although subject to change, the booklet gives us a good idea of what to expect on the trip, and in the case of one afternoon in Bangkok they will hold an optional discussion about LGBTQ+ and transgender rights and lifestyles in Thailand. That item was unexpected. I thought we were only going to wash elephants while whistling the theme to the Bridge on the River Kwai and later swim in the Andaman Sea. I guess I’m really naïve.

NOT THAT THERE’S ANYTHING WRONG WITH IT

Turns out Thailand is one of the most LGBTQ+ friendly countries in Southeast Asia and, according to the OAT booklet describing the meeting, “the country has a complicated relationship with its thriving transgender community.”

We will be joined by, I guess, a Kathoey, who “will share with us some of the obstacles faced by members of the transgender community including areas such as healthcare and discrimination in the workplace.”

PACKING OR LACKING

Kathoey is the Thai term for a transgender individual, a “ladyboy” if you will. Some consider being a Kathoey a “third” sex. Some already androgenous men have fully “transitioned” to women or had operations like breast augmentation to appear more feminine.

Whatever. Evidently Bangkok is a Mecca for sex change surgeries with one clinic, the Preecha Aesthetic Institute performing 1,500 MTF (male to female) procedures yearly. Preecha is just one of many such clinics. Sex reassignment surgeries in Thailand are cheaper than in the United States and the clinics not only service Thais but foreigners too.  

Gives new meaning to Bangkok huh?

Article about the PAI clinic.

Here is their website: PREECHA AESTHETIC INSTITUTE

Despite the “popularity” many Kathoey can only find work in “entertainment” and tourist centers and in feeding a thriving Thai sex industry that had its beginnings during the Vietnam War when US soldiers would go to Bangkok for leave.

Not all sex activities revolve around ladyboys in Thailand, I think.

I don’t want to find out.

INDOOR PLUMBING

Dear reader, at the risk of coming off as intolerant, I want to tell you all I prefer indoor plumbing. I’m not even curious. Yet, a simple online search for sex tours to Thailand and you’ll be greeted by an eye-opening array of straight and Kathoey options. Even if I thought I was brave enough to venture out to find indoor plumbing entertainment, I’d be too afraid to have an outdoor plumbing “surprise” waving at me! I know we like to travel to experience different cultures...but that would be taking things too far.

Janet, stay close.

Thanks for reading.

LIVE TRAVEL LOVE


Bridge on the River Kwai is my kind of entertainment.

© 2025 by Gregory Dunaj


Monday, February 3, 2025

THE ROAD IS LONG AND LIFE IS SHORT

YOU CAN GET THERE FROM HERE      
Socrates

We will be traveling soon to Thailand, and this will be our third trip to the other side of the globe.

In 2022 we explored the Mamanuca and Yasawa Islands in the crystal-clear waters of Fiji while aboard the small cruise ship M.V. Fiji Princess operated by the Blue Lagoon Cruises.

We had to get there somehow.


Last year we traveled the length of Vietnam from Hanoi to HCMC with the small tour company Overseas Adventure Travel (OAT) and while there flew into Siem Reap Cambodia to explore Angkor Wat.

We had to get there somehow.

In a couple of weeks our trip to Thailand begins. Again, we are traveling with OAT, but with an extra week afterwards for sand gravity on the Sunprime Kamala Beach Resort in Phuket.

Yes, we will have to get there somehow.

THE LAVALLETTE SYNDROME

If you are the type of “traveler” who will balk at a longish car ride to get to the beaches of New Jersey or will only consider the comfort of returning to the same destination time and again, like for instance, Lavallette, New Jersey, then don’t consider flying to the other side of the globe.

Not to disparage Lavallette, but there’s a big world out there beyond the Jersey shore. And, because we haven’t yet perfected our teleportation device you have to put the time in to get anywhere. I mean the last test on our dog didn't turn out well.

Teleportation device - Do NOT use

Fiji was 9.5 hours on Fiji Airways from San Francisco, with a five-hour layover there after our transcontinental flight from Philadelphia.

It took us over 24 hours to fly to Hanoi Vietnam, with stops in Minneapolis and Inchon South Korea, with several hours of layovers factored into the equation. 

On this upcoming trip to Thailand, we are doing something different, flying east. 

We will fly on American Airlines from Philadelphia to Doha, Qatar for a 12.5-hour flight. After a 4+ hour layover in Doha we board Qatar Airways for another 6.5-hour flight. We will leave Philadelphia on a Friday, and arrive in Bangkok early Sunday morning, not counting any unforeseen travel delays and will have flown over 10,000 miles.


I told you it’s a big world.

IS IT WORTH IT?

Of course that’s a loaded question. Everyone has their preferences. Wasn’t it Socrates who said: “See one promontory, one mountain, one sea, one river and see all.”

Well, when it comes to traveling, we have drunk the hemlock... usually with a bourbon chaser. The road may be long, but life is short and there are so many beautiful places to visit in this vast world. And I think it's a sound observation that Lavallette is a bit different than the islands of Fiji, or the streets of Hanoi, or the temples of Cambodia.

Thanks for reading.

Love Janet and greg

© 2025 by Gregory Dunaj

 

Thursday, January 30, 2025

NEXT UP - THAILAND!

ON THE ROAD AGAIN
Flag of Thailand
After a 5-week stay at home we are ready to hit the road again. In mid-February we are off on another foreign trip. We are going to Thailand on another excursion with the small group tour company, Overseas Adventure Travel (OAT). 
There are just 15 travelers on our trip that starts in the capitol Bangkok and travels to the northern parts of the country, visiting 6 locations over 15 days. 
This is our second trip with OAT. Last year we visited Vietnam and Cambodia with them and it was a positive experience, enough to sign up with them again.

WHERE ARE WE GOING?

Admittedly, I know nothing about Thailand other than Bangkok and even that is minimal. We were more familiar with Vietnam and Cambodia only because we remembered the names from the war. Cities like Hanoi, Danang and Saigon as well as the Mekong Delta were for a time talked about on the nightly news broadcasts.

Our trip to Thailand will take us to places like Kanchanaburi, Nakhon Sawan and Sukhothai, not exactly places readily on our lips, though I’m sure we will be familiar with all by trip’s end.

We will start out exploring Bangkok, a massive megacity and the capital of Thailand, for a few days before exploring the northern parts of the country.


According to the Thai government Bangkok is the world’s most popular tourist destination, drawing nearly 23 million visitors in 2023, ahead of Paris and London. We’ve had friends who have visited the country several times over the years, perhaps drawn by reasonable prices and great Thai cuisine.

ELEPHANTS AND RAINFORESTS AND THE GOLDEN TRIANGLE 

Most of the population lives in Bangkok and it is much less crowded throughout the rest of the country. After Bangkok we will visit the floating markets of Kanchanaburi and later the Hellfire Pass, where the Japanese forced POWs to build a railway through the jungle, and the infamous Bridge on the River Kwai. We will get to walk to the original bridge and later take a boat ride down the Kwai. We will go “glamping” in airconditioned tents at the Hintok River Camp and later help wash elephants at the Ma Sa Elephant care center at Chiang Mai. Also in Chiang Mai we will visit the "roof of Thailand" at the Doi Inthanon National Park and the cloud forest located there and later in Chiang Rai we get to visit the Golden Triangle where opium was once grown. The government has established many programs and helped introduce alternative crops and pushed tourism over the drug trade. I'm all right with this as long as no one tries to make me a mule.  

That’s just a small sample of what we’re going to see in Thailand, but when our trip with OAT ends, we are flying to Phuket to stay at a beach resort there for a week. We hope to go on a scuba dive while there. There is a dive shop at the resort.

To fly there we are heading east, from Philadelphia all the way to Doha on American Airlines, then boarding a Qatar Airlines flight to Bangkok.

Yep, we ended last year needing to take a break from traveling, but that road weariness is always short-lived with Team VFH.

Thanks for reading.

Safe travels all!

การเดินทางแห่งความรัก 

(LIVE TRAVEL LOVE)

© 2025 by Gregory Dunaj