Wednesday, January 31, 2024

PREPPING FOR VIETNAM

PUSHING THE ENVELOPE
Ha Long Bay
In all our travels together, we have never scheduled as ambitious a trip to Vietnam. This far flung southeast Asian country brimming with beauty and history will be our “office” for nearly a month starting in late April as we traverse the country from Hanoi to Ho Chi Minh City. We will visit 7 different locations over the trip and an overnight sail through the picturesque Ha Long Bay. We will then have a “post-trip” and will travel to Cambodia for five days before finally returning stateside.

We will travel by rickshaw, by bus, by boat and 3 internal flights, exposing us to all the beauty and history Vietnam and Cambodia have to offer. We will also learn of the darker history of the area as we’ll have the opportunity to visit the dubious “Hanoi Hilton” POW prison and visit one of the extensive tunnel systems used by the Viet Cong during the war. We will stroll the cosmopolitan cities of Hanoi and Ho Chi Minh and visit small villages in the country and a floating village in Ha Long Bay. We will visit the sprawling temple of Angkor Wat and the notorious Killing Fields of the Khmer Rouge during our trip to Cambodia.

Hue rickshaws

Logistically, a trip like this is a lot harder than planning for a summer rental at Sea Isle City. We knew early on that such an excursion would be daunting if we did it on our own, and so we decided on a tour company that specializes in small group travel. With no more than 16 individuals allowed on their tours, Overseas Adventure Travel allows us the opportunity to visit smaller destinations where a large tour would simply not be able to go.

Meticulous in their planning, they have sent us a day-to-day itinerary of our Vietnam and Cambodia trips; where we will go, how we’ll get there and what we should expect to see as well as factoring plenty of down time for us to explore our destinations.

Hanoi

WHO KNEW?

This is a very complicated trip. O.A.T. sent us a separate travel planning guide that delves into many of the particulars necessary about this trip. Passports need to have four empty pages for visas, and they will send us a “visa packet” soon with instructions on how we need to obtain our visas before we travel.

It also discusses money matters like how to pay for things and with local currency or USD, when and who to tip.

It also discusses medical concerns. Although a COVID shot is all that’s required, our doctor has recommended us getting Hepatitis A and whooping cough vaccines and to update our tetanus coverage. O.A.T. also recommends getting a prescription for a antibiotic medication like Z-Pak for everything else!

Ho Chi Minh City

We will not be lazing about on this trip. The guide says we’ll be required to walk 2-3 miles unassisted and participate in 4-6 hours of physical activities each day, over 18 days and 7 locations. O.A.T. says they reserve the right to “restrict participation” or even send travelers home if their limitations impact the group’s experience. Yet another good reason to hit the gym.

The guide tells us what clothes to pack, how to pack, weight restrictions, etc. It talks about what electrical adaptors to bring. Both countries are 220 volts. In the United States we’re 110.

As part of our travels will be able to have a “home-hosted visit” for a meal, and they recommend we bring an appropriate gift to share with the family we visit. 

CHAU DOC MARKET

All travel is paid for including international and internal air travel, any coaches, an overnight trip on a traditional junk in Ha Long Bay and a sampan boat for a cruise along the Mekong Delta. Our international air travel will take us first to Minneapolis where we board a plane to Seoul, South Korea and then change planes for the last leg to Hanoi.

There is no way we could have done this on our own! This is money well spent.

OVERSEAS ADVENTURE TRAVEL

All pictures courtesy of: VIETNAM TRAVEL

Thanks for reading.

Love Janet and greg

© 2024 by Gregory Dunaj

Friday, January 19, 2024

VIETNAM

WE’RE HALFWAY THERE 
terraced rice paddies Vietnam

We are going on a month-long trip to Vietnam. We leave late April for a 20 day tour of Vietnam and then a 5 day mini trip to Cambodia. 
Now, there are some people of a certain age who would never consider visiting the Socialist Republic of Vietnam.
Despite decades removed, the memories of the Vietnam War are still raw for them. I have friends who served in the war, and I would listen fearfully to their stories. I knew at that time I never wanted to go.
I did have a draft card, but fortunately the war ended for the U.S. in 1973 before I would come of age. 

LIVING ON A PRAYER
While I spent my youth praying that I would never have to go to Vietnam, times have changed. Although Vietnam remains a communist country, according to the BBC it is one of the fastest growing economies in South-East Asia. They like Americans too and their tourism. Janet has been wanting to travel to Vietnam for a while now and with the new year she started researching this great ambitious adventure. (When Janet does her deep dive researching, it is difficult to be ambivalent about going to a place.) And, as I started my own research over this particular article I learned that Vietnam isn't just historical, but very beautiful.  

CAN’T GO ANY FURTHER

It’s a commitment to travel as far as Vietnam. Look at a map and Ho Chi Minh City (Saigon) is west of Perth, Australia. It is exactly 12 hours ahead of us. If you travel any further, you will be getting closer to home. It’s a completely different culture too and rather than try to wing it on our own, we (Janet) decided to go with Overseas Adventure Travel, which specializes in small group tours. 

HISTORICAL AND CULTURAL

Limited to just 16 people, our itinerary has us flying into Hanoi and traveling the length of the country via rickshaw, bus, internal flights and traditional junk boats and ending our trip in Ho Chi Minh City. Along the way we’ll tour the big cities like Hanoi and Ho Chi Minh City, visit rural villages and orphanages, and watch a water puppet show, an art form that dates to the 11th Century. We’ll take an overnight junk boat cruise through Ha Long Bay, considered to be one of the most beautiful places in world with its turquoise waters dotted by 1,600 stunning limestone outcroppings topped with vegetation. We’ll get a chance to visit My Khe Beach in Da Nang, where the show “China Beach” was located. We’ll have the chance to see sobering reminders of the Vietnam War at places like the War Remnants Museum and the notorious Hanoi Hilton where POWs like the late senator John McCain were held during the war. 
Ha Long Bay

The best part about this 20-day excursion through Vietnam is that we aren't always on the go, having to get up early to go on to the next destination. Our travels won't be a slog. Instead, throughout our stay in Vietnam we'll have sufficient down time to explore on our own and perhaps linger over a cup of Cà phê chồn, cat shit coffee. 

DOGS, CATS, AND DONG
Diet may be the most difficult part of this trip. They eat weird stuff in Vietnam, and Cà phê chồn is probably the mildest iteration of sustenance available in Vietnam. Cà phê chồn is Vietnamese for Weasel coffee. The coffee beans are harvested from the partially digested coffee berries eaten by the civet, a feline-like creature. The beans are collected after the civet defecates the beans and well, this shit ain’t cheap. It’s expensive, and at a boutique café Weasel coffee will cost about $10.00.

yum...Weasel coffee
 WEASEL SHIT COFFEE

HANOI WEASEL SHIT CAFES

To go into detail here about some of the odd foods they eat in Vietnam may stop you from reading any more, so here’s a quick list of strange foods in Vietnam. Explore carefully. 

One hint: Though attitudes are changing, they still eat dogs in Vietnam. 

We may be looking for a McDonalds a lot.


VIETNAMESE FAST FOOD SURVIVAL GUIDE 


Our tour is reasonably costly. It is roughly 294,599,983 Dong or VDN, but that includes everything, accommodations, international and internal airfares, land transfers and meals, tours and gratuities. 

But, don't fret! When you see the price 15,000 VDN for a beer, remember it's just $.60 cents. Consider this when you’re pining for a cuppa Weasel coffee.
It's currently 0.000041 Dong to the Dollar.
don't spend it all at once
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HOLIDAY IN CAMBODIA
We are going on the 20-day small group adventure, Inside Vietnam with the Overseas Adventure Travel company. In addition to this itinerary the company also offers a “pre-trip” and a “post-trip”. The former is called “Hill Tribes of Vietnam: Journey into Ancient Cultures”. 
temples of Angkor Wat, Cambodia

We (Janet) opted for the post-trip to Cambodia. Over five nights we’ll fly to the modern city of Siem Reap, Cambodia to visit the notorious Killing Fields and explore the ancient temple of Angkor Wat. We will then fly to Ho Chi Minh City for our return trip to the United States.

TRAVEL TO VIETNAM

This is some trip, but I’m glad I’m doing it now and not back in the 70s. Stay tuned for more information about our trip to Vietnam.

Thanks for reading,

Love Janet and greg

© 2024 by Gregory Dunaj

Wednesday, January 10, 2024

2023 IN REVIEW

WHERE WERE WE?
Where were we?

Last year we traveled well. We visited 5 countries, a couple of trips in the United States and still managed to be homebodies for a few months. After a while though the trips can blur from one to another, and without a review like this we will look back on 2023 and wonder “where were we?”
So, to help jog our memory for some future conversation here is where we traveled last year.

ENGLAND (twice)

All you followers of this sometimes-tedious blog know Janet’s grandchildren live in Nantwich, Chesire and we try to see them at least once a year.
(Is it cheating to say this is one of the “foreign countries” we visited last year?)
Well, though it is a family sojourn whenever we visit England, we also try to piggyback from there to some other destination in Europe; Ryan Air offers some incredibly cheap flights to the continent.
We have also traveled within the UK while there. We visited Edinburgh, Scotland before flying off to Belgium. We’ve taken day trips to Liverpool, Chester, York, Lancaster and the Lake District, where we took a leisurely boat ride on the largest lake in England, Windermere. This year we took a day trip to the beautiful Welsh town Llangollen.
Christmas in England
Our first trip to England last year had us in Nantwich for the Christmas holiday. It had been a LONG time since we had kids desperately pounding on the bedroom door to awaken us for presents!!!
After the New Year we took a Ryan Air flight to Budapest, Hungary for a week-long trip. 

BUDAPEST
Budapest Parliament

We basically chose to visit this beautiful city in Central Europe because it sounded like an exotic place to visit. We hired a 1 ½ day private tour with Andrea Makkay and saw a lot of this capital city that was once part of the Austro-Hungarian Empire.
With thermal spring bathing facilities all over the city on both sides of the Danube (the twin cities of Buda and Pest were conjoined when the Chain Bridge opened connecting them finally) there was an unexpected charm to Budapest. 

We expected dour Soviet era dreariness, but learned quickly the nightlife, including the Ruin Bars that are in the Jewish Ghetto, and our favorite, the Tuktuk Bar, was lively. Budapest is a popular "Hen-do" destination.

Széchenyi Thermal Baths 


We bathed at the outdoor Széchenyi Thermal Baths and ate a lot of goulash. We attended a performance of Der Fledermaus at the Hungarian Opera. I learned that my last name, DUNAJ, means “from the Danube River area”. Duna is the Hungarian name for the storied river. 

Who knew?

ANDREA MAKKAY BUDAPEST TOUR GUIDE

TUKTUK BAR BUDAPEST

BASEBALL

After our quick start to the year, we settled into the routine of home life for three months. We did manage to attend a Phillies baseball game in April. 

Even though Luis Arraez of the Marlins hit for the cycle that game, we were more concerned with getting another hot dog on “Dollar Dog Night” at Citizens Bank Park.

(Janet took a dozen home.)


Our first date was on March 31, 2006. We consider that date as our anniversary, even though we finally married in 2018. I contacted the Phillies for a celebratory message to Janet on the scoreboard that day. 


CURACAO

We traveled in May to Curacao, part of the “ABC” islands of Aruba, Bonaire and Curacao”, just off the coast of South America. It was another Sandals vacation, our fifth since our honeymoon in 2018.
Willemstad, Curacao

The scuba diving in this part of the world is phenomenal and we managed to go out for five of our eight days at the all-inclusive resort. We also hired a local taxi driver to take us around the island and we saw or swam at some beautiful beaches and had lunch in the colorful capital Willemstad.

We hired Ida, her number is +599 9 522 4488. She is also on WhatsApp.

On the way home we stopped in Redington Beach, Florida for a few days to attend a family wedding.

Later that month we partied with friends in their Lewes Delaware home for the Memorial Day weekend.

PHILADELPHIA
McGillin's 

In true “Vacations From Home” fashion we entertained friends from upstate New York and explored Center City Philadelphia. It proved to be the hottest day of the year, so our entire excursion was planned around shady spots to get a drink. We met our friends in Sandals Grenada. They also stayed in Curacao while we were there, and later in the year we met up again in Barbados.

HOUSE SITTING
Sometimes you need to pay the piper. Janet’s brother and his family have been watching our dog while we travel. So, when they took an extended family trip in July, we watched their house and their dogs. We were very glad to do this, even though they refused to put in a pool just for us.

ENGLAND (summer)

We traveled again to England during the final two weeks of the grandchildren’s summer recess. We did the previously mentioned day trip to Llangollen, Wales and were also lucky enough to wade through the well-attended Nantwich Food Festival.
By the way, they talk funny in Wales.
Llangollen, Wales


SEVILLE, SPAIN
Another piggyback trip to this historic city in Andalusia. We spent a week there eating tapas and drinking Tinto Verano (red wine and lemonade) and discovered Oloroso, an aged dry sherry. We took a cooking class in Triana and had an apartment in the old Jewish quarter, Santa Cruz, that overlooked the Alcazar gardens. 

We went on two one-day trips while there. We took a train and had a private tour of Cordoba and rented a car and drove to see the dramatic cliffs of Ronda.
our view in Seville

Our tour guide in Cordoba was Isabel Martinez Richter. She was enthusiastic and thorough and made our relatively short time in Cordoba fun and informative. 

If you’d like to book her here’s her contact information: (+34 669 645, Isabmr@gmail.com )


SARATOGA SPRINGS 

Our Sandals companions returned the favor and hosted us at their place in upstate New York for a weekend of drinking in Saratoga Spings. Considered the drunkest city in New York, we sipped a lot of bourbon and a lot of surprisingly great craft beers. Our friend makes a very good, if dangerous, margarita! 
craft beer in upstate NY

THE DRUNKEST TOWN IN NEW YORK 


BARBADOS

Now, you may think it’s overly extravagant that we went on a second Sandals trip in one calendar year, but there’s a reason for it. COVID disrupted our travel plans and the trip we had planned in 2020 did not happen. Instead of our preferred time slot of early December, which by the way is a cheaper time to travel, we were pushed to May.

After two years of traveling to a Sandals resort in May, we decided to get back to the December schedule. You get a discount whenever you book your next Sandals trip while at the resort, so we decided to book TWO trips in 2023. Makes sense doesn’t it.

Bathsheba, Barbados


Barbados is a beautiful island and we saw a lot of it as we booked a full day tour with Sanjay. We also went to the Oistins Fish Fry.

To hire Sanjay: Sanjay's Tours and Taxi Services 




FOOTBALL
We ended 2023 on a high note, at least for this NY Giants football fan. We went to a Philadelphia Eagles, Arizona Cardinals game on New Year’s Eve.
A full year, 2023

HERE AND THERE

Janet took a solo trip to see her other daughter in Austin, Texas, and I went to see Eels at the Keswick Theater.

A full year.

Thanks for reading,

Love Janet and greg

© 2024 by Gregory Dunaj

Saturday, December 30, 2023

WHAT TO DO IN BARBADOS

WHERE TO GO WHAT TO SEE
Green Monkey,
Barbados

Decades ago, Janet and I had both been to Barbados. She went there with her mom, and I had taken my kids there on a family vacation. We were looking forward to returning and exploring more of the island and we booked a two-week trip to Barbados, staying at both the Sandals and the near-by Dover Beach Hotel in the touristed area of St. Lawrence Gap. We saw a lot and still we needed more time. 
Here’s a list of what we did during our stay:
OISTINS FISH FRY
We learned about the Friday Night Oistins Fish Fry after we booked our Sandals vacation and rather than slide around the days we decided to just come early, and so we booked a few days at the cheaper but convenient Dover Beach Hotel, literally steps from Sandals.
Ho-hum, another few days in paradise.
Oistins Fish Fry


Oistins is an active fishing town, not far from where we were staying in St. Lawrence Gap. Open daily, the fish fry begins around 7 pm. It’s a very popular destination for visitors and locals and the main attraction is the food. Make sure you get there before 8 pm or expect a long wait. 

You have a choice of marlin, mahi, tuna, swordfish, red snapper, salmon, flying fish and lobster and chicken, either grilled or fried, depending on the vendor you order from. You are served A LOT of your choice and a meal with one beer should cost anywhere from $15-$18 usd. We went to the vendor Uncle George’s, but another notable is Chillin ‘n Grillin. Seating is haphazard with our server moving people already seated to put out more tables.

Although Oistins is open every night, Fridays are especially busy. Sometimes there’s a live band, sometimes there’s DJ music and there’s always a roving Tuk Drum band playing for tips. There is art and crafts and jewelry for sale, there is dancing, there are kids running around in this informal family friendly event. 
Here's a short clip of a Tuk Band at Oistins:

BTW: Don’t book a tour or hire a car service from a resort like Sandals. They charge too much money. Just flag down a cab. There are a lot along Dover Road in St. Lawrence Gap. Make sure you negotiate the price first. It should be USD $15 (or BDS $30) each way for a ride, no matter how many people in the cab. We got a van and there was six of us and it still cost just $15. Sandals wanted to charge USD$60 per couple. On the way back we hailed a cab on the street.

BTW2: A Tuk Band is basically a group of people playing drums and snaking through the crowds, being led by a costumed character. On our night it was “Mother Sally”. She represents fertility with her exaggerated behind and is a favorite with Bajans and visitors. It is customary to tip the band as they parade past.

A Mini-Moke


TOURING THE ISLAND
What was I thinking?
Long ago when I first went to Barbados, I rented something called a “mini-moke”, an open-air car that was originally designed for military use, but quickly became popular in the Caribbean as a civilian car. It was the only time I ever drove on the left side of the road. Thankfully Mokes don’t go very fast and somehow me and the kids survived. I wasn’t going to do that again.

Sanjay to the rescue!
Now older and wiser we decided to get someone to drive us around to tour the island. Barbados has something like 900 miles of roadways and the difference between the east coast and the Atlantic Ocean and the western Caribbean Ocean side is dramatic.
A newer Moke

We hired the highly recommended Sanjay for a day touring the island. His schedule is packed, so unless you're going to rent a mini-moke, even if today’s models look more like a car than an amusement park ride, and test the limits of your nerves, plan on booking him far in advance of your travels to Barbados. 

For instance, we first contacted Sanjay in May for a tour in December, and then we couldn’t get him until very late in our stay in Barbados. He was very busy as the Wisden Trophy, a major cricket tournament between England and the West Indies, had shifted to the Kensington Oval in Bridgetown, Barbados the week we wanted to hire him. Traffic in Bridgetown was horrific. Sanjay is a big fan of cricket and wore a West Indies team hat (The Windies) on our tour with him.

Windies logo

Beaches and Caves and Monkeys and RUM!

There’s a lot to see in Barbados and Sanjay offered suggestions in the back-and-forth emails with Janet. We finally settled on seeing one beach on the east coast, one cave in the north end of the island, a troop of monkeys in the jungle and a lot of shots of rum.

Bathsheba

Barbados is ringed by beautiful beaches, and all are free. The western side is calm with soft white sand and crystal-clear water is inviting and popular with scuba divers and snorkelers. Bathsheba best represents the power of the Atlantic Ocean side. We stopped at this fishing village for the dramatic rock formations just offshore. Eroded by the tides, the rocks look like they will topple with each crashing wave. Enjoy the view, but swimming is not recommended because of the strong undertow. Bathsheba is popular with surfers.
Bathsheba
It was our only beach stop on the east coast of Barbados.

BTW: Another beach to visit on the east coast is Cattlewash. North of Bathsheba this long remote beach is literally named for the cattle that farmers used to bring down to the beach to get washed in the tide pools. I had been here long ago with the kids, and we were surprised by an inquisitive cow as we were admiring the surf.  The farms, and the cattle, are gone, but the name remains.

Sadly, we did not stop. We just drove along the beach road onto our next destination, because we wanted to make the 11:00 am feeding of the green monkeys at The Grenada Wildlife Reserve.


BTW2:
Carlisle Bay Thoroughbred horse racing is popular in Barbados and held at the Garrison Savannah, the home of the Barbados Turf Club in Bridgetown. Every morning from sunrise to around 7:00 am handlers bring their horses to bathe them in the calm waters of Carlisle Bay, also a popular place for snorkeling and scuba diving as there are 5 shipwrecks in the tranquil waters of the bay.  

BTW3:

Crane Beach is sometimes listed as one of the top 10 most beautiful beaches in the world! When the conditions and the algae are right the soft sand takes on a pink-hue. It was on my Bajan “return tour” listing, having been there long ago with the kids, but logistics had us decide on Bathsheba.

GREEN MONKEY BUSINESS

Feeding time for the green monkeys at the Barbados Wildlife Reserve is at 11:00 am. The Bds$30.00 per person is worth it to get close to the monkeys as they clamor for the fruits and vegetables laid out for them. There was some roughhousing and some of the younger monkeys were chastised by the older ones when they didn’t wait their turn.

Signs everywhere warn visitors that the monkeys are wild animals and to not touch them, but I watched as a young monkey held a woman’s finger, almost lovingly, as it waited patiently for the food to arrive.

After a few minutes of frantic activity, the monkeys all scatter again. We then explored the Grenade Hill Signal Station and the rest of the reserve that was home to tortoises and peacocks and macaws, snakes and fronts, but it was a bit anti-climactic after the monkey feeding. Most of the people who came for the feeding left soon after as well.


BTW1: Green monkeys are not native to Barbados but were brought here from Africa by early settlers as pets and unfortunately for the green monkey are now used to create polio vaccine. According to the Reserve’s pamphlet one green monkey can create 2.5 million doses of the vaccine.

ANIMAL FLOWER CAVE

On the extreme northern point of Barbados is the popular Animal Flower Cave. Enjoy the dramatic views of the waves crashing into the cliffs and then descend the stairs with a guide to get a tour of the sea-cave below. It’s slippery and the “animal flowers”, what the locals call sea anemones, are a bit underwhelming, at least for this dufus who was more interested in preventing a slip and fall. As a nature stop though it was quite beautiful but be sure to wear the correct foot gear and not sandals if you decide to go. It is possible to swim in a pool at one end, but we decided against it.  

It costs USD$20.00 to for entry and you should tip the guide who will try to steer you towards his meager array of “collectables” after his tour.

There’s a restaurant on the premises offering sweeping views of the sea, where it’s possible to espy migrating whales.

If you want to save money, I will attach a video a man recently took of his tour of the Animal Flower Cave and you can decide for yourself.

BTW:

Harrison’s Cave Eco-Adventure Park
The Animal Flower Cave is not the only option for spelunking in Barbados. Harrison’s Cave is a far larger cave system and has stalagmites and stalactites, caverns and pools and underground streams. You tour the cave via a tram that takes about 1.5 hours and costs USD$57.00. The “adventure pass” which costs more, gives you access to the zipline and hiking trails and pool and a “challenge” course.

This is one of the main tourist attractions in Barbados, but we figured trying to squeeze it in during our tour of the island would be too much. Better to return another day. (Besides, I hate ziplines)


YO HO HO AND BOTTLES OF RUM
Mount Gay has been distilling rum since 1703, making it the oldest distillery in the world, and no tour of Barbados would be complete without a visit and a sampling. Different varied tours are available at the actual distillery which is at the northern end of Barbados in the parish of St. Lucy. All include a tour of the distillery grounds and rum sampling and cost anywhere from usd$70.00 to $113.00 per person depending on the activity included. We opted for the 2:30pm “signature rum tasting” at the Mount Gay visitor’s center. At just $25.00, the tasting included a welcome cocktail, a movie and a guide who walked us through the history of Mount Gay and then described the nuances of each of their rums as we sampled 4 rums: Silver, Eclipse, Black and XO. We were all very impressed with the XO and purchased bottles of it in the gift shop. There is a bar on the premises and food for purchase available, but as this was nearing the end of our day with Sanjay we decided to eat when we got back to Sandals.

One more for the road…

To make the Mount Gay 2:30 tasting, the last one for the day, we could not linger over lunch at the Animal Flower Cave, but we were able to leisurely drive down the west coast through the towns of Speightstown and Holetown, and past the many white beaches along this stretch of the island as Sanjay gleefully pointed out this expensive place or Rhianna’s apartment, etc.

Sanjay was a great tour guide.

SANJAY TOURS

ST. LAWRENCE GAP

The final stretch of our tour was to drive through our neck of the woods in the Gap along Dover Road and we pointed out to our friends who were on the tour with us the restaurants we ate at before we checked into Sandals Barbados.

There are plenty of bars and restaurants along Dover Road. It’s a party area, but safe. We saw police strolling the street and there were lots of police surveillance cameras. Many of the restaurants have ocean side seating. We ate at three different places:

Socialites

A small colorful place on Dover Road. Popular with locals and tourists. Outdoor seating are gaily painted picnic tables. Surprisingly good food. We split a pulled pork sandwich with tons of fries.

Sea Fans Beach Bar and Restaurant

Located in the Infinity on the Beach Hotel, at the corner of Dover Rd and St. Lawrence Gap, this quiet open-air restaurant overlooks the beach. We had fresh tuna steaks for just USD$25.

BTW: The Barbadian dollar is 2-to-1 to the US dollar. The restaurants were surprised we wanted to tip. A lot of British travel to Barbados and tipping is not a high priority for them.

Mimosas Trattoria and Bar

Lovely place for brunch on St. Lawrence Gap Road, not far from Divi Southwinds. Try to get seated on the porch by the bar, but the patio still offers a great ocean view, although it is sunnier and hotter. There’s a little playground for kids on the grounds.

Writing this entry makes me want to return to Barbados.

Thank you for reading.

Love Janet and greg



© 2023 by Gregory Dunaj

Thursday, December 21, 2023

DIVING AT SANDALS BARBADOS

THE OCEAN IS FOR EVERYONE
BARBADOS DIVE SITES
As a happily married couple Janet and I agree about everything! 
Okay, that definitely is a stretch, but we certainly believe we would be bored at a Sandals resort after a few days if we did nothing but laze about, trying to decide whether we are to get a chaise lounge at one of the many available pools or the beach, or what adult libation to order at the swim up bar, or where to eat that evening. The days would begin to blur. 
This is not to diminish the resplendent beauty of a Sandals resort, or the indulgent pampering one receives as a guest. As an all-inclusive, couples only family of resorts located throughout the Caribbean, we certainly enjoy vacationing at a Sandals, and with free scuba diving offered at all the Sandals resorts, the cost of a vacation there is worth the money. 
Scuba diving at Sandals is a big draw for us. We don’t own any equipment, but we are PADI Open Water certified.
(I started my certification process while on my honeymoon in Antigua…another trophy wife decision).
Open Water certification is good enough to dive to 60 feet and see all the pretty fishes! That's what we love to do at Sandals and usually the experiences are beautiful and fun.
Trophy wives are ALWAYS elite

ELITE?
On the last couple of trips to Sandals though we ran into a new “tier” of diver called “elite”. These “advanced” divers are automatically signed up for every dive. For us to get on a dive we need to hike over to the dive shop and hope someone cancels or doesn’t show up and you need to get there around 7:30 am.

In Curacao the dive shop was ½ mile away. In Barbados, our most recent trip to a Sandals, the dive shop is also on the extreme end of the other resort.

(There are two resorts side-by-side in Barbados. Though as a guest of either resort one has full access to all the pools, bars and restaurants, we were staying in the “other” resort.) That’s a lot of walking in the morning!!

On past trips to a Sandals resort we would mosey over to the dive shop after we settled in and sign up for the next available dive, which usually would be the next day. We checked in on a Monday and the dive shop personnel said our first available dive would not be until SATURDAY!! That caused a lot of angst, and some complaining, and made us doubt the whole Sandals experience.

Shipwreck at Carlisle Bay

You see, there are other resorts that are as beautiful, but cheaper because diving is an add-on cost.   

We enjoy our Sandals vacations, but we really enjoy our scuba diving. We don’t want to dive every day, but we felt slighted that we would have to wait nearly an entire week before getting on a dive.

Fortunately, Sandals did see the “error” of their scheduling conflict and put us on an afternoon dive that Wednesday.  

downtime during
our downtime
8 DAYS A WEEK

Too much of a good thing can become a chore. We don't want to dive every day, because again, the days would become blurry. Thankfully we still keep track of our dives in our dive books, which helps. But, because we don’t want to dive every day during our vacation, this trip to Barbados we booked an 8-day stay. We reasoned we could dive for a day or two and then take off a day to explore the island or laze about quibbling over restaurant choices and then dive some more on subsequent days. It was a good plan, a few days of diving, a few days of lounging, but because of the snafu with the dive schedules we ended up going out for 5 days, with 4 days in a row of diving. We did take a day of exploring to break it up somewhat, (more on Barbados in a later entry), but by the end of our diving it had become a chore for me. One needs some downtime during their downtime.  

Hopefully the Sandals family will reconsider this elite status, which incidentally costs money to join, and realize the ocean is for EVERYBODY!

Thanks for reading.

Love Janet and greg

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